Having a panic attack? Easy tips that don’t involve breathing

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Disclaimer: the tips that follow are by no means based on medical expertise of any sort. They are based on my personal experience and years of dealing with anxiety and panic attacks. For your information, I still do have them from time to time: a panic attack doesn’t magically disappear. It takes work and it’s work you are going to do by yourself (but I’ll try to help a little :)) 

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Your first panic attack

The first panic attack feels pretty much the same to everyone: whatever symptoms you might be experiencing, you feel like you’re going to die.

In the minutes, days, weeks that follow, you feel stunned and start fearing it will happen again. Which is exactly why it will happen again.


Breathing doesn’t always work

If you Google “how to stop a panic attack”, as I’m sure you might have, you’ll find a bunch of tricks and tips which involve a lot of breathing and mindfulness.

Personally, this has never worked for me. When I’m having a panic attack, I don’t have enough mental stability to just sit there and focus on my breathing. It usually ends up in me hyperventilating and feeling even worse.

The only breathing exercise that has actually worked for me when I’m feeling mildly anxious is this gif:

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Image source: Giphy

Of course, staring at gifs is the last thing on my mind when I’m on the verge of a mental breakdown or feel like I’m about to die.

Here are three things that have helped me overcome most of my panic attacks.



Many anxious people also happen to be control freaks and their first instinct is to try and control their panic. Bad move. The more you try to stop a panic attack, the more power you give it.

You have to come to terms with the fact that you have zero control of the situation right now. All you can do is sit back and see what happens. Spoiler alert: you are not going to die.

Acknowledging a panic attack and letting it happen is by far the hardest thing to do because you are tricking yourself into believing that you need to fight back otherwise you’ll go insane (or die).

The thing is, there is nothing to fight there. It’s just you. It’s not some kind of insane heart attack or respiratory failure assaulting you out of nowhere. So, the more you fight, the more reasons you give your mind to think there is some kind of danger, when there isn’t.


Image source: Giphy




You need to have a short list of friends who know about your anxiety and who you feel comfortable talking to. Make sure those are friends that will not let you wallow in self-pity. Call, say you are having an attack, and then ask them to engage in conversation. Have them ask you questions and make you talk about what you had for breakfast.



Right now, your anxiety is steering the ship because it has taken over a part of your brain. The only way you can take control back is not by trying to fight it (you’ll lose), but by activating other parts of your brain.

  • do a crossword puzzle or a sudoku
  • try to memorise all the lyrics to Rap God by Eminem
  • teach your dog a new trick
  • take a badass picture for your blog
  • try to do a winged eyeliner look

I tend to stay away from activities such as deep breathing, cleaning, passively listening to music or watching series or YouTube videos because they just don’t engage my brain enough. In a nutshell, I can still be doing those things while having a panic attack.



  • no one has ever died of a panic attack
  • it will pass, no matter how long it may last
  • you are not the only one suffering from this


There are of course many other ways of dealing with a panic attack. Some people will want to go out for a walk, actually work on their breathing, or take medication (under their GP’s supervision).

I hope these three tips help you somehow. Bear in mind that seeing a therapist will help you in the long run.

Don’t hesitate to share your own tips in the comments below.



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  1. September 3, 2018 / 11:16 am

    I always find it really hard to accept that it’s happening & always end up hyperventilating! I’d like to try a few of these tips though to try & get out of them faster!


    • Kate
      September 3, 2018 / 11:20 am

      I always try to put them into practice. Some times it’s harder than others. But I’ve noticed that acceptance, as hard as it is, is a very effective panic attack killer!

  2. July 26, 2018 / 1:52 pm

    Love the way you have written this with the gifs etc., Some really good ways of coping with panic attacks too, it can be a scary experience.

    • Kate
      July 26, 2018 / 1:55 pm

      Thanks. I tried to make it helpful, yet lighthearted at times.

  3. June 24, 2018 / 1:44 pm

    Panic attacks are awful. I love the drowning cartoon you’ve included in this post, I often describe the feeling as a stack of books piled on top of my chest – drowning is also a very good description! There are some great tips here, I’ll definitely need to try them 🙂 xx

    • June 24, 2018 / 2:18 pm

      Thanks. And thank you so much for all your comments.

  4. May 31, 2018 / 11:02 am

    Reblogged this on TheoryOfLove and commented:
    #IamReal – thanks for sharing and making me not feel so alone in my mental health, Kate.

  5. May 27, 2018 / 1:45 am

    Thank you! I’ve been looking for other ways to calm down from panic attacks aside from deep breathing. Great suggestions!

    • May 25, 2018 / 3:58 pm

      You’re welcome, and thanks for your comment.

  6. May 24, 2018 / 3:04 am

    I just saw your blog on Naya’s blog party and I really like your posts, so I thought to give you a follow, can’t wait to read more from you.


  7. May 23, 2018 / 3:28 am

    Wonderful, informative, important post! We need to keep talking about mental health. Great job! ♥️

  8. May 22, 2018 / 11:03 pm

    Loved the reading! Such a fantastic post

  9. May 22, 2018 / 10:16 pm

    This is a wonderful post, and so informative. I agree that sometimes you just have to let it get on with it and wait for it to pass. It’s better than fighting it at times xx

    • May 22, 2018 / 10:18 pm

      Thanks for your comment. I noticed that you also write about anxiety 🙂

      • May 22, 2018 / 11:02 pm

        You’re welcome! Yep haha 🙂

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